*wow*

haa! today my fren asked me this phrase "emotionally blackmailed". I have never come across it before today and i think it sounds totally deep. It starts me thinking and since I am not too sure of the meaning i turn to net to find out. Found a few explanations and it roughly means that ppl using ur fear, obligation and guilt to manipulate u.
recently i have been getting upset quite frequently and I have been puzzled and felt totally lost of what to do for i dont even know whats the cause of me getting upset. its not exactly that i dont know what is upsetting me. the "character" that is upsetting me is there i know.. but what i really want to know is what has that char do to make me so upset. initially, i thought that it was just me who was jealous of the char. later on i found out that i am just feelin insecure. and there were many instances i felt so hopeless and all due to the incidents that the char have managed to bring about and cause me to be at disadvantaged. today, i found out the reason. it is because, whether knowingly or unknowingly, the char has been emotionally blackmailing me. haa.. somehow when i type it out, it sounds totally ridiculous. haa.. but since i have got no other reasons, meanwhile i will stick to this reason. Now lets see what has made me come to this conclusion. the char has made use of my pride, has made use of my obligations, has made use of my guilt, and has made use of my fear. wow.. hahaha.. so complete. so its confirmed! i am emotionally blackmailed.
okay.. now lets think of the solution/s.

*wow*

haa! today my fren asked me this phrase "emotionally blackmailed". I have never come across it before today and i think it sounds totally deep. It starts me thinking and since I am not too sure of the meaning i turn to net to find out. Found a few explanations and it roughly means that ppl using ur fear, obligation and guilt to manipulate u.
recently i have been getting upset quite frequently and I have been puzzled and felt totally lost of what to do for i dont even know whats the cause of me getting upset. its not exactly that i dont know what is upsetting me. the "character" that is upsetting me is there i know.. but what i really want to know is what has that char do to make me so upset. initially, i thought that it was just me who was jealous of the char. later on i found out that i am just feelin insecure. and there were many instances i felt so hopeless and all due to the incidents that the char have managed to bring about and cause me to be at disadvantaged. today, i found out the reason. it is because, whether knowingly or unknowingly, the char has been emotionally blackmailing me. haa.. somehow when i type it out, it sounds totally ridiculous. haa.. but since i have got no other reasons, meanwhile i will stick to this reason. Now lets see what has made me come to this conclusion. the char has made use of my pride, has made use of my obligations, has made use of my guilt, and has made use of my fear. wow.. hahaha.. so complete. so its confirmed! i am emotionally blackmailed.
okay.. now lets think of the solution/s.